I read a BBC report on the single-child generation and the quiet consequences of falling birth rates across the world. It made me pause—and decide to speak in my own voice. If you’re anything like me, keep reading. I have written endlessly about the sanctity of life. And yet, in my youth, I made a private vow: I would have only one child, and never more. I kept that promise. Most children dream of being extraordinary— of being seen, of doing what others cannot. My dream was the opposite. I wanted to be ordinary. The stars, however, left a wound on me—one that will accompany me until death. I longed to disappear into the crowd, to do only what others could do, to be the most unremarkable person alive. But every sign in my life pointed stubbornly the other way. Language is not merely grammar and vocabulary. Language is about relevance. A shared language is not about words—it is about whether those words include you. For years, I convinced myself that those who spoke my language were...